Skip to main content

Impressions

This afternoon/evening we've been having the Saturday portion of our stake conference. It's been generally pretty good. Here are a couple of highlights:

Elder Fisher is presiding. He's actually from our stake and is a pretty good speaker.  I've been impressed so far. During the leadership session I attended this afternoon (and at which I sang!) he told the story of a woman in St George who was giving a talk about her fifth mission. She went on at length about how her mission was so wonderful and what the area was like. Then she finished up by talking about her 12 (!) children, how they were all married in the temple and that nine of them had served missions themselves. She sat down without ever having so much as mentioned Christ.

Then, out of the audience, another woman got up and approached the pulpit. The tension in the room was palpable - this was highly irregular. She slammed her purse down onto the rostrum and said - if that's what the Church expects of me, I'm not sure I want to be a part of it any more! and stormed out of the building. Elder Fisher said he wanted to stand up and applaud. I loudly said "amen!"

I think that we are so often caught up in the culture of the Church that we lose sight of the whole point of it all. The purpose of the Church is to bring souls to Christ, to be a repository for shared knowledge, to offer chances for service and learning, and (most importantly) to administer the ordinances of salvation. The rest is just the rest.

Then, this evening, a beautiful woman spoke about sending out missionaries. She started with saying that she was going to be honest and if she offended anyone that she was very sorry. She hoped that the message was something that the Lord would want her to relate. She said that when she dropped off both of her children at the MTC, it was not a glorious send off, or a tearful farewell. It was unmitigated grief. An absolute sense of loss. And she was NOT OK WITH IT. (I was totally bawling by this point. Her feeling was so real and raw...) She said she was not ok with sending her "babies" (using quotes because that's the word she used, and it was used in the sense that a only a mother who has feared for her children, who has loved them and then felt the gaping hole in her heart when they left to go out into the world...) to where they could be accosted and assaulted and cursed and mocked and even loved. She felt only grief. The world can be a very evil place.

And she would know. She's a social worker in some scary areas of Ogden, and has seen the emptiness of soul and heart and character that exists in some people. She said that the only thing that could make it ok was the thought that her babies would help to bring the light of the gospel to a darkened world.

Oh, it was powerful. I am still moved to tears thinking of it. Such majesty, dignity, and feeling! So rare and precious in our world - even in our Church. I loved it.

It inspires me to want to do better myself.

Comments

Popular posts from this blog

Is this thing still on?

 Does anyone even blog anymore? I remember when it first got started and everyone was having a blog. I like writing, and I do a lot of it in my professional life, but not everything makes it onto this blog, which is where a lot of my personal thoughts come out. I put more into Facebook lately, too, because it's a little easier. But there's something to be said for this long-form writing exercise, and I think I will continue here periodically. You don't mind, do you? Well, in my last post I wrote about how difficult things were for me at the time. That changed in July when I finally got a job working for the State of Utah. I was the program manager for the moderate income housing database program, and that meant I worked from home a lot but also went in to Salt Lake when needed, mostly on the train. It was a good experience, for the most part, and I'm grateful for the things I learned even in the short time I was there.  In October I started working for Weber County in t...

The Other Art

I'm not sure we appreciate photography as much as we do other art forms. Part of this comes from the reality that surrounds and permeates a photograph - it's very, very real, and the photographer strives for clarity and crispness in the representations. Perhaps this is why black and white images continue to be relevant - they strip away extraneous information (color) and leave us with something that is at once familiar and also non-existent - for nothing exists in black and white. Nothing. I also think that pictures are becoming too common-place... Everyone has a camera in their pocket, and while that's a very democratic thing (everyone can express themselves in a picture easily and readily, and can find an audience for these images, which are casually taken and casually viewed, and perhaps just as casually forgotten) I think that we embrace that casual attitude, and it spills over to all aspects of the media, making it impotent. So I read this article this morning: h...

A Romantic Encounter

Him (tears in his eyes, heartbroken): I want you to know that I love you, that I'm sorry for my weakness and frailties, and that I will try and do better. I think I am doing better than I was before, and I just want to please you and make you happy. I am very grateful for your continued patience as I try to be the kind of man I want to be. Her: You need a haircut. It's getting a little long.