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Taking stock

So, today is my birthday. I am 34 today. That makes about 12410 days of my life.

I can't help but think about some of the things great men have done in the course of their lives, especially those that have been tragically cut short. I know it's not fair to compare my life with theirs - they were great men and had unique opportunities and challenges that they responded nobly to. I just wonder how I measure up. It's not a self-depreciation thing - it's a self-evaluation and motivation thing.

Dr. King was only 39 when he was tragically killed in Memphis. He changed the world. He touched all of us whether we know it or not.

Joseph Smith was 38 when he was killed in Carthage, Illinois. He founded one of the world's great religions and had a name and a fame which cannot be extinguished. He had done more than any other man for the salvation of men in the world save Jesus Christ. He translated the Book of Mormon. He restored the priesthood authority. He reintroduced temple worship and work for the dead. He was the best man of the 19th century, and he gave his life for his belief.

Thomas S. Monson is still living - our current Prophet and President. He was called as a bishop at age 22 and as a Stake President at age 27. He was called to be a mission president at age 32, and at age 36 he was called to be an Apostle - the youngest called since Joseph Fielding Smith, who was called at age 33.

Jesus Christ is the ultimate, of course. He was crucified when only 33 or 34. The record is not entirely clear on the exact date of His birth, the length of His ministry, or His age at death. He also changed the world. He also gave his life. He also is still living.

I have a lot of work to do.

On the other hand, Ghandi lived to be 78. He changed the world dramatically towards the end of his life.

There have been countless others who have lived lives that were full and rich and lengthy. So what have I done?

I graduated from HS when I was 17. I went to boot camp and served in the Navy Reserve for 6 years. I served a mission in Korea for two years. I went to BYU for a year and a half. I lived in Michigan for 3 years while working in a factory to support my wife through grad school. I graduated from the University of Utah with a degree in Architecture and a master's degree in Urban Planning. I have worked for a general contractor for a year, in a call center (as a supervisor) for five years, as a planning intern for 6 months, as an associate planner for six months, and now as the City Planner for Mont Belvieu for over a year. I have been married for more than twelve years. I have two beautiful, intelligent, and loving children who are my absolute pride and joy.

I have been blessed, and I am grateful. I look at the men in the world who are great and have made a difference and I hope I can do the same.

Life is good. God is good.

Comments

Unknown said…
History tell us that Luis XIII used to say when a day passed and he had not done something important: "I have lost a day", Bonaparte used sometimes to compare himself with Alexander the Great and thought he had not achieved nothing yet, maybe what I am trying to say is that our lives are like a blank piece of paper and with our actions we write on it day by day, will it be at the end a good story? Just a mediocre one? A bad one? It depends on us. I think it has been given to us a great gift and a great responsibility, we have the chance to do something good with our lives, don't read me wrong, I am aiming to greatness, just to goodness, just by being good parents, good friends, good human beings, we are enlightening this world, what was the teaching of the Christ? Love your neighbor as yourself, don't you think this planet would be so different if we just follow this little teaching? Peace.
B. Perky said…
If you do nothing else, you have already become a wonderful husband and father. What else matters?

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